Mainstream and alienation

It was a hot, sultry, summer day in 2000. The memory of that day is still firmly implanted in my mind's eye (not because I have a photographic memory but because I wrote it down in my diary).

2000-it was the year I first came to Delhi. I was standing in front of SGTB Khalsa College in North Campus waiting for my friend there. A smart lady probably in her early thirties approached me and asked, "Do you know any PCOs near this place?" (In those days mobile phones were not as common as they were today).

"I'm sorry I don't know", came my reply.

"It's okay. By the way which country are you from?" she asked as she was leaving, curiosity getting the better of her.

"I'm from India, from the northeastern state of Manipur" came my quick reply, slightly annoyed yet amused that she mistook me for a foreigner.

I wasn't prepared for what was coming my way next. She said, "Is Manipur a part of India?".

I was getting really annoyed by now. So I retorted back in anger, "Manipur is very much a part of India, it is on the border with Myanmar."

After she left me, several thoughts came to my mind. This lady spoke impeccable English, and from her looks was probably from an upper class family and she doesn't even know that Manipur is a part of India. And she mistook me for a foreigner because I didn't "look Indian". (If ever there was an "Indian look", and if people from a particular country were supposed to have certain physical features). Anyways, I thought, maybe Geography was never her forte at school (that's how I comforted myself).

This is not a one-off or isolated incident. Most people from Northeast must have had experience of a similar nature at some point of their lives. This incident highlighted the fact that Northeast India remains a neglected region and not seen by many as a part of mainstream India. Who is to blame for this? Both the government and the press are equally to blame for this. Offical apathy and neglect has resulted in underdevelopment, large-scale unemployment and stunted growth of the region. This has led to growing resentment and frustration towards the powers that be which often finds manifestation in drug abuse and insurgency - the two main problems facing the Northeastern youths.

The mainstream media, in most cases, fail to report on news and issues concerning the Northeast region and on the few occasions when they do cover northeast issues, the news reports are often inacurate and distorted. Morever they never make it to the front page of any mainstream newspaper and were hidden away in some dingy corner of the papers. This hostile attitude towards the Northeast is also evident in the school curricula. The history of the Northeast has hardly found space in the school curricula and the geography of the region never given much importance. This attitude is best summed up by Rahul Bedi's (of Jane's Defence Weekly) words "Kashmir is a lot more sexier than the Northeast". The problems facing this region was never given much space in the media. Should we remain a silent spectator to all these? Is there something we can do about this? Isn't it time that we shed our narrow mindsets and parochialism and work towards our common interests. What do we gain by always pulling down each other?

Biased Report on Mail Today

Druglords prey on N-E girls to act as peddlers

The following is a mail I sent to the author of this article as I am really pained to see Northeastern girls being portrayed in such a way. You can see my feelings from the contents of the mail:

Dear Kumar Vikram,

I am writing to you in relation to your biased report against the Northeastern girls in your article on Mail Today dated 28th January, 2008.

While appreciating the fact that you have highlighted the illegal drug trade going on in the capital, it is unbecoming of your profession to generalize and portray people belonging to a particular region or community in such a bad light. While it may certainly be true that some Northeastern girls may have fallen prey to these druglords and easy money, it is ridiculous to portray the whole community in such despicable terms. There is no doubt that some northeastern girls are involved in this trade, but portraying the whole community in such a bad light is difficult to understand. You know there is a black sheep in every community. The Northeasterners in general and Northeastern girls in particular have always been looked upon in contempt and in a bad light, and people always have a biased attitude and pre-conceived notion against them.
You see, supposing I go to the infamous GB Road in Delhi and there I found many North Indian girls indulging in flesh trade and the next day I write an article in a national paper portraying the North Indian girls in the same light as you portray Northeastern girls in your article , what would be your reaction? What would be the reaction of the people of Delhi?. Now you can imagine how much you have hurt our sentiments. I have always believed that the media should be the champion of the cause of the minorities, the downtrodden and the neglected. But your article have cast some doubts on the role the media is playing for/against the Northeasterners, and I am not alone. I am highlighting to you the sentiments of my fellow Northeasterners when they read your article. Mr Kumar, it hurts!

Hoihnu Hauzel, a reputed journalist from Manipur and a person whom i truly admire for her writings (though I haven't had the opportunity to meet her in person) replies:

Letter to Mail Today

Dear Kumar Vikram,

I have always believed that media, to a great extent, is responsible for the way Northeast women are wrongly projected in a place like Delhi. And your yesterday's article "Druglords prey on N-E girls to act as peddles," once again proved just that.

While I have no doubt in your facts and intentions, I am quite upset at the tone of the article. It is upsetting and hurtful beyond words the way you have carelessly yet confidently projected the tribe in your story.

It's even more difficult to imagine that you could begin with words like: "The next time a cocaine addict in Delhi order for a fix, it's unlikely than tan African man will be standing at the door. Instead, it'll probably be a young, trendy Northeast Indian girl. And for a few extra thousands, she'll put sex on offer as well."

And it ends in the same tone: "And the person ringing the bell in all probability will be a no eastern girl."

Are you sure that all of them are from the region? And how many of them are into the trade? I am not writing to you to defend or justify anything. I am writing to you because you have hurt our sentiments. But, for the crime of one, you cannot generalize the entire community. And that's exactly what your article has done. Does Maninder Pal Singh Kohli's (prime suspect in the rape and murder of British teenager Hannah Foster) crime make every Indian a criminal?

As a fellow journalist and someone who comes from one of the states of Northeast India, I am deeply hurt at the way you have chosen to deal with an issue like this. It is derogatory and insensitive to many women like me from the region who have left their homes to build a career. While it may not be your intention to generalize the community, I feel you have been extremely careless and tactless in your choice of words.

Also, it would have really authenticated your story if you have the name or identity of those accused instead of merely basing your story on one unnamed police officer. A.S Cheema merely commented that it is a new trend.

And why do you thrive on the miseries of the region which is typically what the Indian press in doing. Why don't you write the positive stories? Look around; there are many positive stories on the region that can be done from the city.

It is a pity that mainland India has so little or no knowledge of the Northeast India. I have spent half my life here in Delhi and even after living here for more than 15 years I am still fighting a biased attitude from people. People like you who should be actually educating the mass, make it worse for us.

And anyone with "small eyes" or the term people so loved to use "chinky" are not necessarily from the Northeast. You must understand that India has Mongoloid race even from other states like Ladakh and Sikkim (which is the eight states of the region). The city also has a good population of Tibetans and Nepalis.

I will appreciate your response. And this is not to discourage you but to let you know that we, as a community of journalist, ought to be more sensitive when dealing with such issues.

Warm regards,

Hoihnu Hauzel

Chak De

Yeah I know I am late. And this ain't a review of the movie either. You know I ain't a Bollywood fan. In fact, the only Hindi movies I truly enjoyed were the Munnabhai series 'Munnabha MBBS' and 'Lage Raho Munnabhai'. The plot of the movie, you probably already know about it.

As I said, I haven't watched the movie 'Chak De India' but when I heard that there were two North-eastern girls in the movie, my curiosity get the better of me. No, no I haven't gone to watch the movie after that, but I started 'googling' 'Mizo girl in Chak De' and 'Manipur girl in Chak De' and I just want to share what I found out as a result.

The Girls:

Chonchon Zimik, 24

Manipur

On field: Molly

Position: Left Half (back)

Jersey No. 6

How I was picked: A fashion design student from IITC, Pune, Zimik’s friend recommended her to a casting agent from Yashraj Films. ‘‘I was called for an audition. It was a hilarious experience because I was asked to say some fighting dialogues in Hindi. I don't speak Hindi well so the entire effect was rather comic. But I guess it worked.

The best and the worst: I trained for three months and I am happy that I can now play our national sport. Waking up at 4:30 am everyday for three months was the tough bit!SRK moment: I’m clumsy and I was always getting into a spot. Shah Rukh always laughed at that and I can never forget that smile and that twinkle in his eye when he would look at me.

Next move: Post film, I was slightly confused. But I’ll be realistic, I am not exactly what Bollywood is looking for. I work in Mumbai in a fashion designing workshop and will stick to fashion designing. But if there is a good role in a film that deals with the North-East or my state, then I am game for it.

Chak de means: Victory!

Lalhming Kimi, 20

Mizoram

On field: Mary

Position: Defender

How I was picked: A goalkeeper in her state team, her game and a great voice got her the role.

The best and the worst: Hockey came easy to her.

Next Move: Kimi is all set to graduate from player to coach—she’s pursuing a diploma in hockey coaching from Netaji Subhash National Institute of Sports, Patiala

The talented hockey duo from the North East. Their school books taught them that they are Indians but Indians taught them otherwise. The only reason they play for the National team is that it is the only National team they can play for. They would love to belong but not to the team that calls them 'foreign', and definitely not to the people that call them 'loose'. So they stick together and play. For the love of the game and the honour of their people.

Kudos to the girls. We are really proud of you.

And maybe I will watch the movie now, after all!